Nelson K Gentle

  In today's society, where young people are often caught up in a cycle of conformity, experiencing identity crises, and seeking to replicate the images they see on media platforms, what does the future hold for our individuality if everyone is defined by the same narrow standards? Are we not, in effect, relinquishing our authenticity by trying to be something we are not? Certainly, the process of self-discovery is complex and multifaceted, encompassing values, principles, preferences, and more. Nevertheless, if we devote the time meant for introspection to emulating others, we risk losing touch with our genuine selves. To foster personal growth and a deeper understanding of oneself, consider the following recommendations:  1. Take a week-long break from media and use this opportunity to assess your strengths and weaknesses.  2. Create a list of everything that matters to you, including your core values.  3. Explore your innate talents.

Gentleman etiquette, a set of behaviors and manners traditionally associated with courtesy, respect, and chivalry, has long been seen as a mark of a true gentleman. From holding doors open for others to walking on the street side of a sidewalk, these practices have long been upheld as a sign of civility and consideration. However, in today's rapidly changing social landscape, the question arises: are such codes of behavior outdated? In an era where gender roles and expectations are being redefined, some may argue that gentleman etiquette is a relic of the past that reinforces outdated and patriarchal norms. Critics may argue that emphasizing certain behaviors based on gender can perpetuate stereotypes and limit individuals' freedom to express themselves authentically. They may see gentleman etiquette as restrictive and unnecessary in a society that values equality and individuality. The age-old question persists: are gentleman etiquette and its associated manners outdated? As w...